Ayesha Hamid (ckeytee) wrote in niqaabi,
Ayesha Hamid

Assalamualaykum, i just had to share this

I posted public in my journal so yeah..
Assalamualaykum, another letter from sis nini
"Niqaab is a personal choice like wearing the hijaab.... but I would like a balanced view... an emphasis on not just the clothes... not just about not wanting to be recognised but about participating in the buliding of the ummah... Who else but us muslims?

We must arm ourselves not in arguing about oppinions because it causes disunity amongst us...

Rather we work together, we accept one anothers values and up-bringing, we dont back-bite, slander.... u r a good example i can see yr devotion

But most importantly we accept and undertake responsibility as well. Work is work. U have to do it.... its life.

This means we do more than household chores. If we have to, we work, or else we become a devoted house-wife. We listen to our parents. We accept our mistakes in the past and theirs. We grow because we know, that in this way we are following all the main ingredient about islam. The spirit of Islam is not in what the ummah wears but in what we do.

Is it not that Allah swt sees us for what we r and not what we wear, even a prostitute can be forgiven for her sins for giving drink to a thirsty dog?

Muslims are in a state of discord.... because we fail to follow the spirit of Islam.... true subservience to Allah. We become self-centred. Me too. I am no exception. But we must work within Allahs decree.

Think harder Ayesha.... u r very bright. Y r u waering the niqaab? To seek allahs pleasure alone? Allah has not imposed this burden on u but u choose to wear this niqaab. He values you for doing so. But the implication is..... people u love gets upset and in doing so... u r seeking allahs wrath again?

Seeking enlightenment too and learning a lot from u, wallu'alam.


"Think harder Ayesha.... u r very bright. Y r u waering the niqaab? To seek allahs pleasure alone? Allah has not imposed this burden on u but u choose to wear this niqaab. He values you for doing so. But the implication is..... people u love gets upset and in doing so... u r seeking allahs wrath again?" </i>- i answered on e-mail, am not upsetting anyone. I'd rather not upset Allah.</i>
so the conclusion.. it's good that i didn't go to work today. i can't bear for now, at least tomorrow i will... this e-mail was yesterday's, on Sunday and Saturday. Tuesday, tomorrow will be going to work. .. .. i don't have the copy of my answer, i forgot to save the last and first sent mail. but i answered as that .. cant remember, if i do i'll let put it down.
oh.. found it the previous 2nd sent e-mail. but the last one, i didn't save the sent mail.. beh

"Again, i do this and wear it for me.. and, d'oh which is for the sake of Allah, that i do these from the blessings that Allah has given me. i'm a muslimah striving in the cause of Allah.. i fear Allah.. living & striving for the cause of Allah.. for the sake of Allah."
"As for work, i wasn't working for the pleasure of Allah, i thought of helping you. If i wish to do so, i wouldn't have worked. Because i don't have the intention of working. Now that there seems to so much for you to do, and for me wanting to learn more bout those computer and others, i'll see how things go. Your work is your work. I have some work elsewhere too.Especially at home. and do not talk about niqab anymore in e-mail. if you want or u feel bothered just say it. we can argue, but that won't stop me from wearing. look at yourself first before others.If you want to bring so much about me, let me bring about you as well. And why are you wearing hijab? why did u wear a hijab and you take it off, once when we were out in open? did u wear it for Allah? are you wearing it because you feel it's a blessing being covered and that Allah has set rules and tell us to be modest? or just because u feel like, people want you to wear it, LIKE you said before to me once, i remembered..... "
and so on.. and then more of what she wrote and i wrote.. (actually heaps more, i don't want to embarass her)

some another e-mail from her

"Ayesha..... I swear in allahs name and my children, that my advice 2 u is in the name of allah. I want u to NOT take of the Niqaab.... rather ....... be rationale.....be informed and consider how it affects others when u wear the niqaab? how does it affect yr mum? Yr dad? Yr family..... Believe it or not none of the fitna comes from their mouths. It comes from the envous folk envying them. U r making them an easier target of ridicule.. --auzubillah, this really hurt my feelings...but they keep firm protecting u...... covering 4 u all the time.... u just dont see that....... How they have protected u....... I ENVY HOW YR MUM AND DAD R SO PROTECTIVE OF U.... subhanallah. " -- i answered none other can protect me than ALLAH. and also, parents always worry bout their kids i said.
"dont make the mistakes i made kiddo. my blunders are far worst than anybody's i know of.Yrs are lame compared to mine. But I keep trying 2 improve. Y cant I wear A hijaab all the time?we all have a valid excuses?! dont we? --i said that's your jihad and your struggle against shaytan
1.i m trying to please my husband..... he fights with me....... about hijaab
2. Im confused...... I love Allah but when I wear the hijaab...... i grow insecure, who r scrutinizing me... when I dont wear it Im wandering I have sinned to Allah..... "

"I dont want to put u down.... I admire your reserve...... Yr decision bout this niqaab thing..... I HONESTLY DO. BUT....

But its giving the ones u love sleepless nights worrying sick bout your welfare.... whether yr dabbling with religion or r yr serious? I KNOW U R NOT SELF-CENTRED. its my fault for being presumptous.... I cant talk 2 u face to face..... will u want to listen to me or will u give me a corker? to shut me up?
When i write things down I avoid saying all the wrong things and saying things impulsively..... I RESPECT YR FEELINGS..... even though i know ive hurt yr feelings but well..... i made my mistake...
I'll try to communicate better. But tell the ones u love yr ok..... build the trust back ..... the onus is on you..... it is allahs decree..... Please ayesha..... " WHAT THE?~!!! TRUST ALLAH

"Oh you who believe, stand up firmly for justice, as witnesses to God, even if it be against yourselves, or your parents, or your kin, and whether it be against rich or poor; for God can best protect both. Do not follow any passion, lest you not be just. And if you distort or decline to do justice, verily God is well-acquainted with all that you do" (Quran 4:135)

salam ayesha

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Muslim outrage huh. OK ... let's do a little historical review. Just some lowlights:

Muslims fly commercial airliners into buildings in New York City. No Muslim outrage.

Muslim officials block the exit where school girls are trying to escape a burning building because their faces were exposed. No Muslim outrage.

Muslims cut off the heads of three teenaged girls on their way to school in Indonesia. A Christian school. No Muslim outrage.

Muslims murder teachers trying to teach Muslim children in Iraq. No Muslim outrage.

Muslims murder over 80 tourists with car bombs outside cafes and hotels in Egypt. No Muslim outrage.

A Muslim attacks a missionary children's school in India. Kills six. No Muslim outrage.

Muslims slaughter hundreds of children and teachers in Beslan, Russia. Muslims shoot children in the back. No Muslim outrage.
Let's go way back. Muslims kidnap and kill athletes at the Munich Summer Olympics. No Muslim outrage.

Muslims fire rocket-propelled grenades into schools full of children in Israel. No Muslim outrage.

Muslims murder more than 50 commuters in attacks on London subways and busses. Over 700 are injured. No Muslim outrage.

Muslims murder innocent vacationers in Bali. No Muslim outrage.

Muslim newspapers publish anti-Semitic cartoons. No Muslim outrage

Muslims are involved, on one side or the other, in almost every one of the 125+ shooting wars around the world. No Muslim outrage.

Muslims beat the charred bodies of Western civilians with their shoes, then hang them from a bridge. No Muslim outrage.

Newspapers in Denmark and Norway publish cartoons depicting Mohammed. Muslims are outraged.

Dead children. Dead tourists. Dead teachers. Dead doctors and nurses. Death, destruction and mayhem around the world at the hands of Muslims .. no Muslim outrage ... but publish a cartoon depicting Mohammed with a bomb in his turban and all hell breaks loose.
You're hilarious. And rather stupid not to mention cowardly.

THIS is a community for Muslim women who wear the niqaab.
THIS post is about a Muslimah telling us about her discussion about niqaab with another woman.

I fail to see how this comment is relevant to this post. If you want to make a point then make it somewhere where it's actually relevant. And if you have even a little bit of courage and sense then dont be anonymous and don't spam the community?
Was that hard to understand? I can go over it again if you like.

You're not very media literate are ya? Fatwa Online condemned this type of behaviour.

Have a nice day,